Tantrum

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For other uses, see Tantrum (disambiguation).
Toddler throwing a tantrum

A tantrum, a temper tantrum or a hissy fit is an emotional outburst, usually associated with children or those in emotional distress, that is typically characterized by stubbornness, crying, screaming, defiance, angry ranting, a resistance to attempts at pacification and, in some cases, even hitting. Physical control may be lost; the person may be unable to remain still; and even if the "goal" of the person is met, he or she may not be calmed.[1][2][3][4] A tantrum may be expressed in a tirade: a protracted, angry, or violent speech.[1][2]

Toddlers

Tantrums are one of the most common forms of problematic behaviour in young children, but tend to decrease in frequency and intensity as the child grows older. For the toddler, tantrums can be considered as normal, even as gauges of a developing strength of character.[5]

Child having a tantrum

While tantrums are sometimes seen as a predictor of future anti-social behaviour,[6] in another sense they are simply an age-appropriate sign of excessive frustration, and will diminish over time given a calm and consistent handling.[7] Parental containment where a child cannot contain itself - rather than what the child is ostensibly demanding - may be what is really required.[8]

Selma Fraiberg warned against "too much pressure or forceful methods of control from the outside" in child-rearing: "if we turn every instance of pants changing, treasure hunting, napping, puddle wading and garbage distribution into a governmental crisis we can easily bring on fierce defiance, tantrums, and all the fireworks of revolt in the nursery".[9]

Some people who have neurological disorders such as autism or intellectual disability could be more prone to tantrums than others,[10] when it happens, they throw themselves on the floor, crying, screaming and kicking as a means of getting across that things are "not right",[11] although anyone experiencing brain damage (temporary or permanent) can suffer from tantrums. Anyone may be prone to tantrums once in a while, regardless of gender or age.

Aberrations

Freud considered that the Wolf Man's development of temper tantrums was connected with his seduction by his sister: he became "discontented, irritable and violent, took offence on every possible occasion, and then flew into a rage and screamed like a savage".[12] Freud linked the tantrums to an unconscious need for punishment driven by feelings of guilt[13] - something which he thought could be generalised to many other cases of childhood tantrums.[14]

Heinz Kohut contended that tantrums were narcissistic rages,[15] caused by the thwarting of the infant's grandiose-exhibitionist core. The blow to the inflated self-image, when a child's wishes are (however justifiably) refused, creates fury because it strikes at the feeling of omnipotence.[16]

Jealousy over the birth of a sibling, and resulting aggression, may also provoke negativistic tantrums, as the effort at controlling the feelings overloads the child's system of self-regulation.[17]

In later life

Thackeray claimed that in later life "you may tell a Tantrum as far as you can see one, by the distressed and dissatisfied expression of its countenance—'Tantrumical', if we may term it so".[18]

Heinz Kohut contended that "the infant's core is likely to contain a self-centred, grandiose-exhibitionist part", and that "tantrums at being frustrated thus represent narcissistic rages"[19] at the blow to the inflated self-image. With "a child confronted with some refusal ... regardless of its justifications, the refusal automatically provokes fury, since it offends his sense of omnipotence".[20]

The willingness of the celebrity to throw tantrums whenever thwarted to the least degree[21] is a kind of Acquired Situational Narcissism[22] - tantrumical.

See also

References

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  5. ↑ Robin Skynner/John Cleese, Families and how to survive them (London 1993) p. 177
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  7. ↑ Roy Benaroch, Solving Health and Behavioral Problems from Birth Through Preschool (2008) p. 157
  8. ↑ Patrick Casement, Further Learning from the Patient (London 1990) p. 113-4
  9. ↑ Selma H. Fraiberg, The Magic Years (New York 1987), p. 65
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  12. ↑ Sigmund Freud, Case Histories II (PFL 9) p. 242
  13. ↑ Freud, p. 257
  14. ↑ Sigmund Freud, Case Histories II (PFL 9) p. 257-8 and p. 242
  15. ↑ H. and I. Goldenberg, Family Therapy (2007) p. 172
  16. ↑ Edmund Bergler in J. Halliday/P. Fuller eds., The Psychology of Gambling (London 1974) p. 182
  17. ↑ Selma H. Fraiberg, The Magic Years (New York 1987) p. 152
  18. ↑ William Makepeace Thackeray, The Irish Sketch Book (1848) p. 138
  19. ↑ H. and I. Goldenberg, Family Therapy (2007) p. 172
  20. ↑ Edmund Bergler in J. Halliday/P. Fuller eds., The Psychology of Gambling (London 1974) p. 182
  21. ↑ Cooper Lawrence, The Cult of Celebrity (2009) p. 72
  22. ↑ Simon Crompton, All about Me (London 2007) p. 176

External links

  • The dictionary definition of tantrum at Wiktionary
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